The pain of LOVING someone who will never love you

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They say that love is the best teacher. Thanks to him you will learn more than you could learn in a classroom or in a book. The reason is very simple, we feel more when we are in love.

Human beings learn through the senses, processing and interpreting the information collected by them. Our brain releases chemical substances associated with the emotional sensations we experience, and these are what allow us to perceive life at hypervelocity. That's why we feel more alive when we're in love.

Being in love is the best thing in the world.



Until you fall in love you do not know what it means to live. Well, to be more exact, until you fall in love and your heart is broken, you do not know the meaning of living. On the other hand, until you have a broken heart, you will not understand what love really is.

As human beings, we learn better from loss. We value people and things more after having lost them.

Surely you have ever imagined what it must feel to lose a person you love, but it is until you really lose it or you are about to lose it when you fully understand what he or she means to you.



We learn when we are hurt by others; when our best efforts are not good enough; when we fail Success is not a good teacher.

As soon as we lose something, the moment we become aware of the now empty space that is in our life and that was once occupied by something beautiful, even if that something was only the dream of having what you now know that you will never be able to have , it hurt.

Love can teach you almost everything you need to know about life. For example, it can teach you that sometimes it does not matter how much you love a person, that person simply will not love you.

It can also teach you that there are many levels of love, and that each and every one of us loves in a different way. It can teach you that sometimes you have no choice but to love someone who will not love you as much as you love them.



In fact, we often fall in love and continue to love those who do not correspond with the same passion.

Most of us have a problem when distinguishing between romantic love and true love. Romantic love is rather a kind of obsession with what you want to have, and this is what makes us want what we can not have.

Romantic love makes our imagination turn a person into something good and special. Worst of all, we love being in romantic love, no matter how much it hurts.

Being in love with someone who will never love you in the same way shakes your heart, but you love it. Do not misunderstand, it hurts, it hurts a lot. But at the same time it makes you feel more alive.

This opens one side of life and a part of yourself that you did not know existed. It is the kind of pain that is never forgotten, but which you remember with a kind of affection and nostalgia.

There is a thin line between pain and pleasure. Romantic love is located in that she.

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