If you really LOVE someone, you will NEVER stop fighting to make it work


If I had to describe love in one sentence, it would be: Love is what we believe is worth fighting for. No matter how it is presented, it comes in different shades and there are no two people alike and it will be different from any other that has existed before. We will recognize it no matter how well or how badly it has gone. But in the process of living it we will have to ask ourselves how much we are willing to fight for it, how much we are willing to give up to share that allows us to know how true it is.

The only love that is worth having is for which it is worth fighting, because anything that is not worthwhile is not love.

If you're not willing to fight, then you do not want it enough

It does not matter if we are talking about goals in life or couples: if you are not willing to fight for them and hold on to not lose them, then you simply do not love them enough.

We all want to be loved, looked after and it is great, except for all those things with which we have created a wide comfort zone. Nobody lives a happy life in its entirety within that space of least effort. When we find someone for whom it is worth fighting, we must crawl out of that area. Maybe we will not realize that we have done it, but in all cases it will be a rewarding effort that will be worthwhile.

If you never feel the need to fight, then it is very likely that you get bored

One of the main reasons why it is worth fighting for love (or love) is because the relationship is important for us, for multiple reasons.

But, although it sounds hard, just as people get bored with things, sometimes we feel that people do not need attention. And in the case of a relationship, if it does not require a minimum effort, a positive struggle, it is a dead relationship.

It is a rule that all relationships require work (not incredible sacrifices in the name of love). Often it's just about making sure you make an extra effort, week after week, for the rest of your life together.

Only the things that we think are worthwhile are important to us: we have to fight for them

Are you having problems to understand yourself? To your life? You're not sure what you should do, where to go, who should you be? Well, many of us are confused about our purpose in life, especially if we have lived a comfortable life in which survival is not at the top of our list of priorities.

When life is good for us from the beginning, it can be hard to find a place in it, and one reason is that we have not had to fight for anything. This is commonly the reason for losing something or tosomeone: Fighting against that loss shows us what the person or things mean to us.

If you are not willing to fight, then that person deserves something better

Every man and woman deserve someone who loves them so much that he or she is willing to fight for them with tooth and nail. If that person loves you, you have someone willing to fight for you to protect you, to fight your battles. This is exactly the reason why human beings came together in the first place.

Today it is no longer necessary for you to fight with your fists, but you need to fight for the decisions you make, the way you think about your life, the way you forgive and do everything possible to maintain the relationship.

Leaving the boat when the waters get difficult make the whole relationship choke. Nobody deserves to be abandoned and less at a difficult time.

If you are not willing to fight in the same way as who loves you, for the love that you both share, then that person deserves something better. And you deserve to be better.

Jentezen Franklin - If You Really Love Someone, You'll Never Stop Fighting To Make It Work (January 2021)