The Internet has changed our vision of the world and has made us much easier, for example, now we can make video calls to talk with our parents, buy things from the comfort of our home, find millions of answers and many other images.
However, these changes in modern communication have not necessarily been to improve. It has become easier to keep in touch, but it has also changed the way we act on a date and has finished a bit with romance and spontaneity. How many times have you had online conversations and instead of telling a detail you send a happy face?
1. Have a real date
Meeting someone in a bar and drinking something together while listening to music at full volume is the modern standard of dating, but it should not be the case.
Do not think too much, take the classic approach: for example, watch a movie and enjoy a dinner (see the movie first, this way you'll have something to talk about later in case they run out of conversation). Choose a good restaurant (it does not have to be expensive), order a bottle of wine (or a couple of drinks) and enjoy your company.
2. Talk, talk and talk more
You must know others (and her in particular) with long conversations. If the conversation does not flow naturally, it is a warning sign that it might not be for you.
It is important that you mention your birthday, that you talk about your family and friends, and what you want to do with your life. This will lead you to ask the same questions.
Do not be arrogant, do not boast, and while it is not necessary to say absolutely everything, you should not be afraid of her discovering your true self.
3. Stay in touch
It is not bad to send a text message, but you should not use it as the main means of communication. Text messages do not say everything you want to say, simply because you can not write it.
Take the phone and call it. It does not have to be for a specific purpose; It may be simply because you want to talk and listen to the sound of your voice.
4. Pick it up at home and take it too
Why wait for her somewhere when you can pick her up at home? It's a little extra effort, but it's a gesture that will enchant you. Touching politely at the door is much more personal than sending a text message that says: I'm at the bar, where are you?
When your appointment is over, offer to take her home. Maybe she'll kiss you goodnight at your front door or invite you in to have a drink just like in romantic movies.
5. Give her gifts
It is not necessary to arrive with gifts every time you see it, but it is the small details that make the difference. You might think it's cheesy to bring her flowers on the first date, but she will not think about it.
Once you get to know her better it is advisable to give her small gifts that show that you are thinking about her, maybe a book that you think you may like or a playlist of songs that remind you of it.
6. Watch your appearance
It is common that some people, when they are in long-term relationships (or always), forget things like personal hygiene and do not realize what they wear when dressing.
You have to make an effort to look good when you are with her. To look at yourself in your appearance shows that it is important to you.
7. Bring all your attention
Has it ever happened to you that being with a friend, he or she simultaneously talked to you and wrote a text message every two minutes? It is incredibly annoying.
When you are with a girl that you like, she should have your full attention. So the phone must be silent and you forget that it exists for a while.
8. When the lights go out
Do not assume you're going to sleep with her the first time they leave. Some women have no problem going to bed with a boy on the first date, but others prefer to wait. Wait as long as necessary, that's your choice, not yours, and above all, do not press it.
9. Be honest with your feelings
There is too much at stake in modern courtship. Everyone feels the need to be on guard and be shy with their feelings. Why believe that you will scare her if you confess your love before dessert arrives on her first date?
There is nothing wrong with saying something like: I like you, and I want to get to know you better. It is very simple and very effective. She will appreciate it more than if you send cute little faces on Facebook.