If you have already opened your horizons and met different people, including the man you are dating, now give yourself the opportunity for your partner to be someone who considers you a person worthy of being loved.
These are the main differences in attitudes that have a boyfriend who is not interested in taking another step, and one who is willing, but also wants to marry you.
1. About being a good match
The boy you go out with: Think about what you have to offer. He likes you because you give him your time and your attention, because you find him attractive and share with him interests and hobbies such as practicing a sport or listening to his favorite band. He expects you to be a good match for him.
The boy you marry: Think about what he has to offer you. He loves you for who you are, appreciate your whims, your flaws, your strange sense of humor, the weird way you laugh and read Edgar Allan Poe. It hopes to be a good match for you.
The boy you go out with: He gets jealous very fast when you're with other guys. He gets angry easily, which often ends with small arguments. It is possessive about your time, and although that can be nice at times, it can also become downright annoying.
The boy you marry: Put your trust in you and give you the benefit of the doubt. Try to understand your point of view before affirming yours. He is willing to give you your space when you need it. He is always open to speaking things and exercises patience when he gets very angry.
3. About being pretty
The boy you go out with: It's the boy you put on your makeup for. You spend hours preparing yourself because you want to impress him and look pretty, and at the end of the night I give you a kiss that reminds you that he is yours.
The boy you marry: It is the boy who is not aware of himself if you are around him. She tells you that you are pretty with or without makeup, because she loves you with her heart. You do not need a kiss to confirm that he loves you, but he gives it to you anyway, and every time you feel butterflies that flutter inside his stomach.
4. On the interest of one for the other
The boy you go out with: It's a mystery. He likes to be a puzzle for you to solve, and you try to be enigmatic to keep him interested. You are afraid that over time, they may get bored with each other.
The boy you marry: You know it as the palm of your hand. You lower your guard because you feel comfortable with him as to reveal your secrets. Although there are times when you can get bored together, in general you feel happy to be in their company.
5. Fun vs. Feelings
The boy you like: It's the one you have fun with. You are with him because he moves your emotions.
The boy you marry: It's the one with which you not only have fun, you can also do a lot of other things. You have feelings for him, not just chemistry. You are in love because he understands that loving you involves sacrificing part of his time, energy, and is willing to do so. He loves you in a patient, lasting, faithful and disinterested way.
Love is patient. Love is kind He is not envious or proud. It is not selfish. He does not hold a grudge. Always everything believes, everything waits and supports it. Corinthians 13: 4-7