We have all, at some time, felt that we failed. It is a normal feeling, however it is necessary to find a way to see your life and yourself from a different perspective.
For example, we often downplay small things; The fact of not being rich, not living in a big house or not having a luxury car does not mean that your life is a failure. And yet it is the opposite.
These are the 20 signs that you are having success in your life:
1. Your relationships are less dramatic than they were before
The drama is not a sign of maturity. As time goes on, and as we gain experience, we must develop a sense of true maturity. If your relationship has changed, then you are succeeding.
2. You are no longer afraid to ask for help
Asking for help does not make you weak. In fact, it is a strength. No person has achieved success alone. It requires working as a team to achieve your goals.
Asking or asking for help is a sign that you are growing as a person.
3. You have set your own standards
You have become intolerant of the bad behavior of other people, and even of yourself. You have surrounded yourself with people who take responsibility for your actions and have put aside the people who steal your energy.
4. You let go of things that do not make you feel good
Although it may seem, this is not narcissism. Self-love is a sign of success. Love yourself enough to say no to things that do not make you happy, that do not serve your purposes.
5. You appreciate what you see in the mirror
The best thing would be that we always appreciate what we see in the mirror, but it is not always the case. If you now do it more than usual, then it is an indicator that you are succeeding. Have love for you, you are wonderful.
6. You have learned that defeats and failures are part of growth
No one can succeed in all the things he does, that is not possible. Sometimes it is necessary to fail to learn. That is what life consists of, of victories and failures.
For that reason, it is better to learn to take the stumbles of life as steps that will lead you to something better. In itself the failures do not exist, everything is part of a wonderful journey called life.
7. You have created a support system
If you have learned to detect the people who support you, and to differentiate them from those who only intend to do so, then you have succeeded.
This process is sometimes painful, but once you learn to recognize people who betray, it will be easier for you to stay away.
8. Do not complain
You have understood that there really is nothing to complain about. Unless you have been through a very difficult time or have had unimaginable losses, it is important to know that most of the situations we experience day to day are surmountable. People who have achieved success know this and live grateful with life.
9. Celebrate the successes of others
The fact that other people are achieving success in their lives, does not make you a failure. Applaud the people who reach the top. The more positive energy you dedicate to the victories of other people, the more of this energy you will create for yourself.
10. You have dreams to pursue
You do not live stagnant. You know that you have something good to give to the world; you have unique talents and gifts. In fact, you not only know it, you use it.
11. There are things that you expect
If you do not have interesting things in your life that make you wait with impatience, then you are dying a little inside. Successful people create goals that they pursue with passion. Let that enthusiasm guide you through life.
12. You have dreams that have come true
Even though failures are part of life, you have clung to your goals and dreams until you make them come true. You have tasted the flavor of victory several times. This becomes a fuel for your life.
13. You have empathy for others
A person who is not able to put himself in the place of another can not be called successful. Empathy is the way to spread love and positive energy to the world. Successful people know this and try to do something for their peers.
14. You love and let them love you
Love is always a risk and sometimes terrifies. It is the only thing that we all, ever, seek; but it is also linked to one of the feelings we fear the most: rejection.
If you open your heart enough to love and be loved, then you are a successful person.
15. You refuse to be a victim
You know that life is not against you. Most of the time you are responsible for what happens in your life. Successful people know this and refuse to let bad experiences mark their lives. When they fall, they get up and try again.
16. You do not give importance to what others think of you
You have understood that you can not please everyone.You know that the rules with which society judges are, most of the time, unreal. Therefore, you are true to yourself and what you think, and you love the person you are.
17. You see the good side of things
Life can be full of disappointments, if you decide to see it that way. On the other hand, you can also see everything as an opportunity to learn. No negative experience occurs in vain if you manage to learn from it.
18. You accept what you can not change
There are many things in life that can not be changed; The only thing you can change is the way you see things. If you are able to change your negative perspective to a positive one over things, then you are successful.
19. You change what you can
Just as there are things that can not be changed, there are also infinite things that can be modified. People who achieve success do not sit down to observe how things happen, go out and look for ways to achieve change.
20. You are happy
This is the highest definition of success. It does not matter how much money you have in your bank account, the size of your house, or how many times a year you go on vacation; If you are happy, then you are succeeding in life.
It is probable that you do not identify with the 20 things that we have just mentioned. Do not worry it's alright. A lot happens with the passage of time. Be happy with what you have achieved and try to move forward.