17 innocent things that the boys say and make EXPLODE their girlfriends

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There are certain phrases that a man simply should never say when he is in a fight with his girlfriend. No matter how logical or illogical the argument is, once it starts to be discussed it will end up thrown out the window.

When someone is attacking you verbally, it is natural to tell this person to calm down, but when that someone is your girlfriend, and she is very angry, this is the last thing she wants to hear, whether or not her reaction is justified. At that time women feel that our emotions are completely justified, so try to avoid these phrases that make us feel that they are attacking and canceling us.

1. Relax



What you really want to say: Do not get upset, it's not really that bad.

What women listen to: You are crazy .

Why you should not use it: Because no matter how honest you are being, this phrase is the quickest way to ignite a woman's fury.

Synonyms: Calm down, take a breath.

2. You are crazy

What you really want to say: You are acting in a completely absurd and out of place way.

What women listen to: What you just said is one of the most idiotic things I've ever heard in my life. At no time were you close to anything that could be considered a logical thought in your incoherent response. Everyone in this place is now more foolish for having listened to you. You have not won anything and may God have mercy on your soul.



Why you should not use it: You really have not seen anybody go crazy until you put that label on a woman. We take it as a challenge.

Synonyms: You are being irrational.

3. My ex never did this

What you really want to say: Not even someone with whom I ended up long ago to be with you, would do something like that.

What women listen to: He hates me, He's about to finish me, Kill me.

Why you should not use it: It's a low blow and you should never even think about saying it.

Synonyms: This is not normal, I'm dismayed, what the hell have I gotten myself into? .

4. It's not the big deal



What you really want to say: It is not so much.

What women listen to: I do not care at all.

Why you should not use it: You minimize our worries

Synonyms: I do not care, it's not important.

5. Everything is in your head

What you really want to say: I do not know why you could think that when there's no logical reason for you to do it.

What women listen to: You are creating problems that do not exist because you are acting paranoid for no reason.

Why you should not use it: You insinuate that we are crazy.

Synonyms: That is not true!

6. You look good

What you really want to say: You look good .

What women listen to: You look completely horrible, You do not look for anything special.

Why you should not use it: To a woman you must tell her what she really wants to hear, in the long run it will be better.

Synonyms: That looks very good.

7. Whatever

What you really want to say: I give up, You win.

What women listen to: I care less than one my% @ da

Why you should not use it: You make us feel that you do not care a bit about what we are discussing.

Synonyms: It's okay, We're fine, Everything's fine.

8. I'm not angry

What you really want to say: Actually I'm not even a little angry.

What women listen to: I'm really very angry and you do not want to know how I feel.

Why you should not use it: We know that you are very angry, even if you do not want to realize it.

Synonyms: I'm completely fine, I swear everything is fine.

9. You look the same

What you really want to say: That's the best haircut I've seen in my entire life.

What women listen to: Did you just lose so much money to see you exactly the same? .

Why you should not use it: Just lie and now!

Synonyms: You do not look different

10. Are you sick?

What you really want to say: I'm very worried about your health because you do not look like you normally look.

What women listen to: You look completely horrible and disgusting.

Why you should not use it: Do you want to make us feel worse than we already feel?

Synonyms: You are tired?

11. You have a big butt

What you really want to say: I love your ass.

What women listen to: You have too big a rearguard.

Why you should not use it: We will never take it as a compliment, unless you say so.

Synonyms: Has your butt grown? .

12. Okay, nobody will notice

What you really want to say: You do not even notice that pimple.

What women listen to: You have done a disgusting job in trying to cover up your imperfection, and now it shows more.

Why you should not use it: You just have to pretend that you do not know what we are talking about.

Synonyms: It is not seen.

13. I need a little space

What you really want to say: I just have to concentrate on my work, I have a busy week.

What women listen to: You are a suffocating monster.

Why you should not use it: Because the opposite would be much, much worse.

Synonyms: I need a little time of men.

14. Then why are they still friends?

What you really want to say: Why are you wasting your time with someone you can not stand?

What women listen to: You are an irrational human being.

Why you should not use it: We need to have someone to complain about with our friends and part of your job as a boyfriend is to fulfill that role.

Synonyms: Then, why do you join her?

15. Are you in your period?



What you really want to say: I am interested to know when you are in those difficult days.

What women listen to: Surely your body is to blame for your exaggerated mood swings.

Why you should not use it: When we are in our period we feel terrible and we do not want anyone to know.

Synonyms: Are you okay? , Is something the matter? .

16. That girl is attractive

What you really want to say: That girl is beautiful.



What women listen to: That girl is better than you, I'll leave you for her.

Why you should not use it: Insinuating that a girl is attractive will prevent us from being objective and will cause us to act with paranoia.

Synonyms: That girl looks good.

17. You are acting like your mom

What you really want to say: You are being a little controlling and dominant.

What women listen to: You are just as manipulative and controlling as your mother's madwoman.

Why you should not use it: You make us feel that we are aging.

Synonyms: Your attitudes are not adequate.

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